L'viv, Ukraine

L'viv, Ukraine

Saturday, April 11, 2015

johann sebastian bach

I am currently listening to Bach's Brandenburg Concerto #2 in F. It's not uncommon for me to listen to classical music; in fact, I grew up in a home where classical music was the norm. I have my mother to thank for that. She would often listen to music from history's greatest composers as she cooked dinner or did other housework. I have found that I do the same!

While I personally prefer Chopin and Beethoven, I read a quote from Johann Sebastian Bach this week that has been on my mind. He said, "Music's only purpose should be the glory of God and the recreation of the human spirit." Bach was never interested in fame or fortune, he simply wanted to show his devotion to God and bring joy to those around him. That idea resonated with me, and throughout the week I have considered how I personally glorify God and lift those around me.

For me, I glorify God through my actions both public and private. I share what I believe with others, I sing hymns for Him, and I thank Him through prayer for the many blessings He has given me. I bring joy to those around me through encouragement and laughter. I want people to know that I support their dreams and their opportunity to choose their own path in life. I enjoy bringing a smile to the face of a friend.

I think that each of us glorifies God and provides relief to human spirits in individual ways. I am grateful for the opportunity I have had to reflect on this in my own life, and I am going to start being more aware of how others do this in theirs.

Saturday, April 4, 2015

remote meeting

For our remote meeting, our group decided to use Google Hangout in order to discuss and work on our team project.

I hated it.

First off, I'm really not a technology-literate person, so having to meet via computer put me in a bad attitude anyway. We started the chat, only to have problems getting everyone on. Then my wifi went out. Then it went out again. Then I got frustrated. We were able to do some work on our project using Google docs, but overall I was not satisfied with the experience.

I understand the value of being able to have remote meetings; people all across the world can talk together and share ideas. However, I don't understand why anyone would ever have a remote meeting when they can meet in person. I think that meeting in person eliminates a lot of miscommunication and misunderstanding. It seemed to take three times as long to decide on things during our remote meeting as it usually does when we meet in person.

I'm going to avoid meetings via Google Hangout like the plague.

changing the world

My least favorite class this semester is Finance 201. I just find the material to be very dry; it doesn't really motivate me or inspire me to do big things. Thankfully my professor Dr. Holmes is interesting enough, and every once in a while he has true gems that really stick with me. One such gem has been on my mind this past week.

After 72 minutes of lecturing about capital budgeting, Dr. Holmes began to talk about changing the world in the full sense of the phrase. He talked about how some people would have us believe that we can't really change the world, that those are just some fluffy words out of our reach. Then he stated, "Don't let anyone ever tell you that you can't change the world because in fact, you're the only ones who can. Your station in life gives you the energy. The fact that you're members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints gives you perspective. Your education at BYU gives you the intellectual prowess. You can change the world."

Dr. Holmes is right; you and I can change the world on a large-scale basis. However, I think this is best accomplished on a small-scale basis, one person at a time. We can begin to change the world by changing someone's world.

I know this because my world has been changed by people around me. Family members, friends, and mere acquaintances have left lasting impressions that shape who I am. I want to have the same influence on those around me. Because of Dr. Holmes' words, I want to begin to change the world. I want to brighten the days of the people I meet. I want to smile. I want to lift and encourage and love. I want to focus more on those around me than I do on myself. This week I want to find one opportunity every day to change someone's world in a small way.

Finance 201 may be boring most of the time, but I really have learned a lot that is applicable to life. You and I can change the world!

Saturday, March 28, 2015

sister lattin

Sister Lattin is the wife of my mission president, my second mom, and my greatest example of genuine friendliness. She is always smiling! Whenever she sees you, she gives you the biggest, most enthusiastic hug. You feel as if she's been waiting her whole life to see you. I always feel of Sister Lattin's genuine love and appreciation for me as an individual.

Sister Lattin also has some health problems involving osteoporosis. In fact, for the past few weeks she has been in the United States getting treatment. She has been on my mind and in my prayers. Her example of friendliness and love makes me want to be better.

So, this week I'm going to renew an old goal of mine. Sometimes when I'm in big crowds or somewhere with a lot of distractions, I don't actually pay attention to the person who is speaking with me. I'll look around, only listen with one ear, and give almost no feedback. I realized that this could give the impression to the people that I'm around that I don't care about them, or that things are better elsewhere. A while ago, I made a goal that whenever I am with someone, I will focus on them, look them in the eyes, and be genuinely interested. I am going to commit to doing this again throughout the course of this week. I want other people to feel around me the way I feel around Sister Lattin.

By genuinely being interested in others, I will build my relationships with them. I believe that relationships are the most important things we can focus on in life. I am grateful for the good examples I have of friendliness and interest, and I hope to one day be an example of this for other people.

Saturday, March 21, 2015

nature

I'm from Oregon; it's a BEAUTIFUL state, covered with mountains, green trees, and rivers. I didn't really appreciate how magnificent Oregon's nature was until I came to BYU for school…I mean, I guess Utah is pretty too.

I grew up playing among the Douglas Firs behind my house, picking blackberries, boating, camping, hiking, swimming, stargazing, you name it. I thought that everyone had such a childhood, but this past week in one of my classes we discussed how children are spending significantly less time outside and in nature than previous generations. Most of it has to do with the surge in television watching and video game playing. I guess kids don't want to exercise their own imagination when a computer does it for them…

We discussed the effects of this phenomenon, which is appropriately termed "nature-deficit disorder." Kids have greater trouble focusing, are more likely to be obese, and are performing more poorly in school. This knowledge made me especially grateful for my upbringing in Oregon, where I was free to connect with nature on a daily basis.

That being said, I have noticed how I spend much less time outside as a college student than I would like to. Once you factor in classes, homework, work, social engagements, and church meetings, there seems to hardly be any time left to enjoy the beauty of this earth. In my life, I notice that when I take a few minutes outside to sit still, I am happier and more productive. Learning about nature-deficit disorder scared me into making a goal of spending twenty minutes outside every day. I think that this will improve my overall mood and appreciation for what is around me. I am really grateful for a God who created such a beautiful earth for us to live on, and I want to enjoy it more often.

Saturday, March 14, 2015

jason mraz

Last night I had the opportunity to drive up to Salt Lake City for a Jason Mraz concert; it was incredible. Not only does Jason write beautiful songs and perform extremely well live, but also he has a strong set of values based on positivity that I found to be compelling.

All of Jason's music is related to positive thinking in some way. One particular example that he shared stuck out to me. Growing up, he had a friend who was diagnosed with a rare form of bone cancer. Instead of complaining about the diagnosis or focusing on the negative, this friend instead adopted the mantra, "I won't worry my life away." He continued to live his life to the fullest, and is still alive and well today. This phrase became the inspiration for one of Jason's most famous songs, "The Remedy."

Since I heard this story, I have been thinking about the power of a positive attitude. No, we can't always change our circumstances or our genetic predispositions, but we do have control over our attitude. I have noticed in my own life how choosing a good attitude makes any situation bearable, no matter how dark. With this is mind, anytime this week when I find myself complaining about something, I will correct myself and instead think of two good things about the situation. I think that by training my mind in this way, I'll be able to find greater satisfaction in life and feel more able to deal with challenges.

My mom always said, "Attitude is everything; pick a good one." Will you?

Saturday, March 7, 2015

technology

In one of my classes this week, we discussed the positive and negative uses of technology, as well as the pervasiveness of technology in our society today. I think you all know that technology is a wonderful blessing that can be used for good, but it can also become a handicap when used too often. Our professor advised us to do a personal checkup and see how often we were using technology, and for what purposes.

So I did. For two days I kept track of my technology use more closely--in particular, the use of my phone--and documented how often I sent a text message, scanned Facebook, sent a Snapchat, etc.

The results shocked me. I could hardly go at least five minutes without checking my phone! It was ridiculous! I realized that I had been missing out on a lot going around me because I had my head down and eyes glued to my phone.

Because of what I learned, I decided to make some changes in my life. First, while I'm walking from class to class I don't look at my phone. Instead, I simply enjoy the sunny weather, smile at people, and focus more on breathing the fresh air. I have also decided to put my phone and computer to bed about twenty minutes before I go to bed. By doing this, I will have time to unwind so that falling asleep is an easier process. I'm going to start with these two changes for the next week, and then I'll figure out where to go from there.

Technology is a beautiful thing; it allows me to stay connected with my parents, brothers, and friends in Ukraine. However, there were things that I could change and ways that I could improve my usage. I am glad that we discussed this topic in class because it helped me to more clearly figure out my priorities.